Marie Christine Nduwimana
Parenting Issues & Education :4583 C 1
Professor: Charles Coleman
Date: 09/16/2016
Blog
# 2
As beginning let
see what spanking means. According to this website www.criminaldefenselawyer.coms
spanking is also called corporal punishment, define as a discipline method in
which a person inflicts pain on a child without inflicting injury and with the
intent to modify the child’s behavior. There are many ways can be use while a
person is spanking a child. The methods people use to spank are: hitting a
child’s bottom, slapping, grabbing, shoving or hitting a child with belt or
paddle.
People have many arguments
either to spank a child is wrong or right thing to do. Currently, parents in
many states have a limited right to spank their children. Parents have right to
raise their children as they see that their children can fit. According
to many states’ lows Parents have right to use any method when it becomes on
the ways they want to raise their children. for examples one parent can choice
to talk, put the child’s toys away for couple days, parents can tell their
child” not TV today” because what you have done is not good. All those can be
use in order to discipline a child. On
other hand there are another parents who prefer to use some physical
punishments in order to discipline their child. According to the criminal defense lawyer Parents
have right to us a physical punishment to their children as long as it is done
in self-control and does not cause injury.
There are many states that been done examination on spanking. Most of
those states have found out that it is not wrong to spank a child as long as
that child cannot be injury. Those states are Georgia, California etc.
Even though those states
are saying that spanking is ok. Let we see the best way to do it. As educators
we believe that there are good ways to discipline the children according to
their ages. On top of that we know that
the way we talk to three years old baby is different when it becomes to ten
years old child. Since the ways we talk to those children are different, the
punishments to them have to be different as well.
Ellen from
criminal defense lawyers says that spanking a six years old child twice on the
bottom will not cause issues to that child.
However, to spank a six-year-old numerous time with a belt causing
lacerations, bruising, and pain that lasted for days, this can be considered
child abuse. Also many researchers reported that there are same children can
have mental health problems due to how their parents spanked them.
Parents have to know
that they have right to discipline their children in order to show them that
they want them to have good behaviors anytime and everywhere they are. In contrast
Since there are sometime when parents can cause their children to have a mental
problems due to how they spank them, let we learn which ways to spank the
children without causing those issues.
I believe that if
everyone will get chance to learn the best ways to spank children, the spanking
method will become a good method to teach our children not to misbehave. Also
parents will decide if spanking is working to their children or not. After that
parents will see what to do next. In order to give correction their children.
MY URL IS: myspankingmethodadress.blogspot.com
References:
WWW.livesscience.com/ human Nature
WWW.Criminaldefenselawyer.com
